"I had to work my way through uni. I can assure you that cleaning loos,shop work and waitressing did zilch for my cv.
I'm pretty sure the same won't give my DC a leg up if applying for top jobs when in direct competition from rich kids who got a better degree due to not needing to work and a top private school such as Eton on their cv."
I went to state comp school outside of London. I also worked through my degree (shop work) at my ex poly uni. After graduating I the got a place on a very very competitive well paid grad scheme - I am very sure my part-time working did help me in a number of ways - that and the result of the company's IQ/aptitude test. The graduates taken on the scheme were from all kinds of backgrounds - including indie and including Oxbridge. The common denominators - from what I can work out: intelligent, inquisitive, creative and conscientious, team players.
Many years later I still now enjoy a great career thanks @LimpLettuce and in a STEM sector!!!! As of course do many of my maintained sector peers. Though, I point out that my Oxbridge partner and I do not measure success in monetary terms at all - and that both of us^^ had far more lucrative paths open to us!
So. DCs now go to indie school. I tend to agree with @peteneras not for exam grades, networks nor job prospects! For me it's trying to provide a liberal, varied and exciting education - in the widest sense - and crucially because successive U.K. governments fail to invest in a good quality broad education for all, yet continue to play about with educational policy at a school and even subject level!!
So, we use our taxed, disposable income to pay to choose the school of best fit for each child, institutions that match our values, approach and thoughts on education. I realise we are very fortunate compared to many -but we also have many many MC friends with far greater financial resources, who have chosen to spend their taxed income elsewhere and stick with the state system. Fair enough. But it's just simply not the case that only 7% can financially afford to go independent - very few indie's are the ubiquitous headline £30k+ a year and many MC families choose not spend their money that way - what people value plays a big part in many cases.
Also, I have to say that IME relatively few indie school children are rich kids ready to rely on the bank or network of Mum and Dad etc!
Rather than demonising institutions that strive for a broad and varied education of children shouldn't we all be pressuring government to reform and improve the state education offer and outcomes for all? Not just MC, all. If this happened I would spend disposable income elsewhere for sure!!