I think that it is fine to say 'My DD is at a superselective school, so I know that her grades will be in the top few % and her teachers say the same, though they may be out by a grade or two'.
It is not fine to say that the same predictions can or should be able to be made by other teachers in other types of school - so to imply that noble is wrong, or worse than your DD's teachers, when she says that she cannot make such predictions, is clearly not fine. She is just working in very different circumstances, in which making predictions is HUGELY more difficult.
So a superselective, typically, will draw its children from a wide area, and can be pretty sure that they are in the top 10% of ability compared even to a wider peer group. However, a comprehensive draws from a much smaller area, and can have much less confidence in how the spread of the ability of its children reflects the situation nationwide. So for example, I can say that i know the (primary) school I teach in has an ability profile skewed towards the more able, towards the nationwide picture - but exactly how much, and exactly where the 'nationwide average;' is within our cohort is pretty much impossible given the small sample size.
So for a teacher like noble, where in her, say, 150-250 pupil cohort the 'true pass mark' or even 'the true top 7% nationally' lies is well-nigh impossible, and certainly very greatly more difficult than for a school that can state with certainty that virtually all its pupils are in the top 10% nationwide.