Hi I have an unhappy year 8 girl who is struggling to settle at her (fee paying) secondary school and having friendship problems. She is seeing the school counsellor because she is so unhappy, I have met with the head of year (to no avail of course), I am meeting again with the head of lower school but I don't hold out much hope. In addition the school have been v indiscreet/unprof by inadvertently forwarding me an email where I saw what the head of year thought of me. Daughter just recently asked to change schools. My question is - is it ok to admit openly to potential new school that you're unhappy with existing school or is there a protocol for changing 'just because'?