Littleham that's the thing. I did exams a very long time ago, being older than the average mum, but there was no pressure on us to achieve anything. Unless you had that mum that wanted you to do a specific thing, you weren't pushed or pressed to achieve top grades. Now it's all people talk about.
Self-harming is definitely an issue. My dd, 14, has always been described as very mature, academic and level headed girl. She's came home the other week and said 'I'm not clever any more. I used to be, but I'm not now.' What she meant was, she's being told that she's never good enough. If she gets an A, she's told she needs to push for an A*. If she gets a B, you'd think she'd committed murder, the amount of guilt her teachers subject her to. Add to the fact that her peers are running around comparing grades and inadequacy becomes a constant feature of life.
Any wonder our teens suffer from mental health issues more than any other generation of teens has? And that's without the social media pressurising our girls to look a certain way, dress a certain way, be a certain weight, shave this, pluck that. Insanity. It's been constant testing since she joined secondary school and that's not ending any time soon.
What is it we say when our kids are little? We just want them to be happy. Well, fat chance of that happening in the current climate and exam insanity is at least partly responsible for that.