Notinaminutenow Fri 13-Mar-15 17:59:24
I wonder, does the child actually get any say in this plan? Is there any room for children to grow during ks3? Maybe find a new passion? Perhaps, shock horror, follow a non-academic path. To actually enjoy their learning and not just buy into the current doctrine that, without a place at a RG Uni, their education has been in vain.
Sorry don't know how people are quoting other messages - but responding to Notinaminutenow who I think also goes by RaisinBoys:
This is very much coming from a place of child wants to be an engineer/ mathematician/ scientist and has wanted to since Y4 in primary. Poor kid is in a family of ARTs graduates and artists - none of whom 'get' science/ maths or are particularly good at it but do appreciate a good documentary on tv. As I said earlier, I enjoy Brian Cox astronomy programmes on tv - but I'm the one sitting there discussing the lovely photography/ filming and the interesting way the producer has chosen to present the information.
DD2 (Y5) who's geography/ climate obsessed forced me to watch a programme on the BBC - Climate by Numbers. She tried to absorb the information from this tv programme whilst I was fascinated by the light sticks and wondering how they caught the image - stop motion/ overlay of live image over still?
I fear my worry notinaminute is not really about the secondary school (state comprehensive), I know reputationally it is a good school; I think the teachers care and work hard; it does get pupils to A & A* at GCSE Maths (but maybe 8 out of 150 pupils - sometimes less - over last 5 years) and it has reputedly got one pupil to Oxford/ handful into RG Unis in last 5 years. By Birmingham standards I can assure you that's an amazing state comprehensive. To be fair to the school many high flying GCSE students opt for the King Edward VI grammar schools for sixth form and leave the school at this juncture.
I totally accept in 5 minutes DD1 may have a different idea about what she wants to do when she grows up - but my problem right now is:
I'm starting to doubt whether the school can support DD1, the KS3 maths curriculum is not by year, as in KS1-2. I can't work out what should be taught by when, but can see there's a lot left to do.
The school is big on saying that they stretch able students 'laterally' with engagement in more complcated problems using the same skills taught to main class, but when I ask DD1 about this she says it's often NRICH puzzles she has already done or the teacher has her start further down the worksheet. She enjoys the work - but says a lot of the time it isn't difficult/ tricky or new (often she's done the NRICH puzzles before - as she does them at home in lieu of maths homework on teacher's advice).
I worry that with the dropping of AS Levels, University UCAS entrance scheme offers will be based on existing GCSEs - so now doing as well as you can is even more crucial (i.e. Bs or As may just not cut it)
My own maths abilities are limited and although I was confident to provide help in primary maths and felt confident I could appraise Maths Factor/ games on Woodlands Junior Maths Zone/ Multiplication.com/ etc... - I'm rapidly running out of that confidence and certainly suspect sometime in the next few years I will only be able to rely on the school to support DD1.
My own backstory is that my brother - who is a primary maths Lead at his US school started an engineering course at Uni thinking he was exceptional at maths based on our small town schooling only to find out he wasn't and started to struggle. He changed his major. He still enjoys maths but feels that had he been stretched in US High school = KS4 + Sixth form, he would have been more prepared. So that backstory is really haunting me. (I hasten to add he loves his job and is very content, it all did turn out alright - but at the time it was really upsetting for him and very hard to break the news to our parents - who were very much 'our son the engineer').
DH and I worry that if we just rely on the school - we'll end up with DD1 having to settle for something else, because she didn't quite make the cut for what she wanted to do (By the way DD1 currently is researching maths, engineering & physics programmes as part of a high achievers mentoring programme at the school - which by the way didn't even point out Cambridge/ Oxford offer engineering degrees or know about Cambridge Tripos system - Cambridge educated DH (a Uni lecturer) had to point that out to the school - and we only learned about STEP entrance exams through MN because of this discussion). The upshot of mentoring is the school are encouraging her to consider Loughborough. Nothing against Luga-baruga as we affectionately call it (hasten to add named learned from colleagues there) - but is it really the 'best' engineering course on offer? Not a lot of discussion of the full range of options - seems teacher knew about Luga-baruga - not Aston or UoB, not elsewhere (and it's really the 'elsewhere' side of things I'm interested in her finding about).
That's our delimma notinaminute/ Raisinboys - is she getting information on all possible destinations/ opportunities with guidance on what she needs to do to get there - is she being stretched to reach full potential?
I don't think there is an answer to these 'niggles' - I think it's always a case of a parent worrying and really having to hope the school will do its best by your child....
I hope DD1 will go on to be one of those 8 or so a year who achieve A/A* at GCSE - and I suppose just like primary (long sigh for here we go again) the solution is starting once again to look like I will have to help her achieve that.