first exam for DD2 today (Psychology), quite a bit of stress here (she has a medical condition which amongst many other things, causes brain fog, and it's pretty unpredictable if/when she'll be ill), but we got a lot of the uni stress out of the way in Feb half term with a massive 6 unis in three days road trip, which weeded out a lot of potentials. Trouble is, her first choice is now Cambridge, so i'm joining the rest of you in UMS calculations
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Exam timetable is a bit rubbish - four exams this week, three next week, then just two after half term. We had the same thing for GCSEs - three quarters of the exams before half term.
And DD1 starts her finals today as well (or rather started half an hour ago), and although she's not at home, I'm getting daily de-stress phone calls to talk her down from "I don't know anything, it's all going to be dreadful". Up till now in her head each set of exams has always had the options of "I can make it up next semester", but this is now the next semester, and the last chance to get it right. NOt that there's any danger of messing up, because even if all she manages to do is turn up to each exam and write her name on the paper, she's done enough to get a 2:1, but she's so very close to a first, and anything less than that is naturally a fail
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I'm very good at soothing and patting shoulders and "there there" ing
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