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2015 Yr 12 support thread

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Needmoresleep · 08/01/2015 11:48

Mocks this week, and the reality of AS exams in a few months is starting to hit home. I don't think it will be an easy journey, so would welcome some company.

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AtiaoftheJulii · 14/05/2015 18:30

The local one that my girls have been to is mostly just uni reps handing out prospectuses Smile And pens Grin Think they both had one or two interesting conversations, but nothing that couldn't have been found out elsewhere.

AtiaoftheJulii · 14/05/2015 18:32

Good to hear that Bernadette Smile

eatyourveg · 14/05/2015 18:35

ds3! - still can't seem to tell my children apart Grin

Northernlurker · 14/05/2015 19:17

Well done Bernadette - good thinking

SecretSquirrels · 14/05/2015 19:18

Bernadette Glad she's perked up. They often think they have done worse than they really have.

Marni23 · 14/05/2015 19:41

Bernadette so pleased your DD is feeling better, I've been thinking about her. SecretSquirrels is right that they do find it difficult to gauge how well they've done sometimes-there's a tendency to dwell on the questions they feel didn't go very well. I've been wondering whether to post about an exam DD did last year at GCSE in case it sounds like a stealth boast but I'm going to because it proves the point. After a Latin exam last year she sent me a text saying that it was awful and she didn't think she should do Latin A Level after all. When she came home she was really down about it. On results day she'd got 100 (full) UMS for that exam. And the Latin grade boundaries are always very high. She was genuinely gobsmacked. So the best thing really is to put each exam behind them, move on to the next, and wait and see what August brings. Easier said than done though I know.

DD had Philosophy today and seems pretty happy about it. Only 2 left now; Latin on Monday and History on Wednesday. It's her birthday tomorrow but at least she hasn't got any exams!

TranquilityofSolitude · 14/05/2015 20:52

Glad to hear you & DD had a better day, Bernadette.

DD thought Philosophy went well today, which was a relief. Geography and English Lit tomorrow so a heavy day ahead. She's been revising all afternoon and has gone to youth group to relax, which is probably a good thing.

BernadetteMatthews · 14/05/2015 21:42

DDs friends all found philosophy tough today apparently so hopefully the grade boundaries will be kind.

Thanks again for all the support, good luck to everyone tomorrow.

RaspberryLemonPavlova · 14/05/2015 22:36

DS said philosophy was fine this afternoon and he enjoyed the Further Maths this morning!

He has a break for a few days now/

Really glad your DD is doing OK. Bernadette

MorvahRising · 14/05/2015 22:50

Bernadette what a brilliant idea. Really glad she's feeling better. Onwards and upwards!

We seem to have booked eight open days. I'm wondering if that's too much? It's certainly filling up the calendar in June and July. We'll all probably be wandering past each other unknowingly!

amybear2 · 15/05/2015 02:49

pavlova which exam board is he doing for further maths?

ISingSoprano · 15/05/2015 11:43

We are having lots of conversations about open days during our evening walking sessions! Dd has booked two for June (on consecutive days so we are having a bit of a road trip) and we will do more in the autumn once we have a better idea of what is achievable. She seems to be working hard this week in her lull between exams so I hope she can keep her anxiety at bay over the next few weeks. I like the motivational quotes idea - I may pinch that Bernadette!

GentlyBenevolent · 15/05/2015 12:53

Apparently English was 'Good' which I guess is better than 'ok' or 'alright'. DD1 actually emailed me unprompted about it so it must have felt significant'y better than the other exams so far this week (where I had to email her 'taaaaaaalk to meeeeeee' (or something about politics) to get a response). This email was totally unprompted (I was actually too focussed on my work (and possibly news of Chuka withdrawing from the leadership race) to twig that she must have finished).

BernadetteMatthews · 15/05/2015 18:38

Geography was good today, thank God and DD seems back to normal now. I hope everyone's DCs did well today.

MrsUltracrepidarian · 15/05/2015 18:42

ISingSoprano
Interesting! Maybe we should have a dedicated thread for mumsnet meet-ups at unis whilst our DC are attending their sessions Grin

GentlyBenevolent · 15/05/2015 19:18

Dd1 seemed fairly pleased with geography too. Not so much as English though.

AtiaoftheJulii · 15/05/2015 21:40

Well, first week done! Glad it seemed to finish on a reasonably happy note all round SmileStar

TranquilityofSolitude · 15/05/2015 22:24

Oh dear. My Dd thought Geography was difficult. On the upside she only has two to go now and they're both next week, so it will all be over soon. Not so for Dd2 who is only about a quarter of the way through her GCSEs.

BernadetteMatthews · 15/05/2015 22:27

DDs was AQA Tranquility if that makes a difference?

GentlyBenevolent · 15/05/2015 22:44

My DD's was edexcel. She was very worried about this exam so maybe that influenced her - if it wasn't as bad as she feared she may have become over enthusiastic about how good it was, perhaps.

TranquilityofSolitude · 16/05/2015 12:24

Thank you - it was Edexcel. I think she almost set herself up to find it difficult because she did a different GCSE syllabus to everyone else in her group, and therefore they've found some things easy that she's found hard and vice versa.

Is anyone else finding it impossible to really gauge how it's going? So much is due to their mood and interpretation that it feels as if we won't really be able to predict the results at all! I guess one of the reasons that we're struggling is that DD is mostly doing essay subjects rather than ones to which there is a right answer.

BernadetteMatthews · 16/05/2015 15:11

It's really hard to gauge how it's going, apart fromom the one DD will definitely have to resit, of course. I think geography is notoriously hard to gauge too. In the past DD has been totally wrong about how it's gone and then been pleasantly surprised come results day. I hope all the hard work pays off for them all.

Lots of revision going on here, busy start to the week then only one left after half term.

TranquilityofSolitude · 16/05/2015 16:43

Thanks, Bernadette. That's reassuring. DD has spent the day revising (she has Sociology and Philosophy to come) but is going out to dinner with a friend tonight for a bit of relaxation and commiseration!

Needmoresleep · 17/05/2015 11:32

Bernadette, DS had a two poor results in individual AS papers a couple of years back. One because he misread one of the questions and gave completely the wrong answer, and the second, a humanity, where he thought the exam was fine but then wound up with a poor result. (Not the only one, humanities seem to throw up regular surprises.)

It was difficult at the time, but looking back no harm was done. The major difference was that he applied through UCAS, with the intention of taking a gap year and reapplying if he did not get the offers he wanted, and if his grades the next summer were significantly better.

So he applied to the top four courses for his subject and a fall back. He got an offer from the fall back pretty early, a "no" from Cambridge, though did get an interview, and then was kept waiting by the other three till the end of March, which was horrid. If he had the AS grades he had expected, he probably would have got earlier offers, though Cambridge would still have been a bit of a long-shot. Instead he got an offer for the course he really wanted, possibly more than Cambridge, and indeed which is often ranked higher than Cambridge. Rejections from the other two.

Someone he knows, and in a similar position, reapplied and got Cambridge second time round (though curiously and perhaps illustrating the lottery element, was rejected by the University DS attends.)

I suspect poor results at AS is not unknown. Certainly some very bright boys, who sailed through GCSE, seemed to need a reminder that they had to shift up a gear, though I suspect this is less common with girls. Year 12 also seems to be a difficult adjustment year for dyslexics studying humanities. The silver lining is that something like this will happen at one point and that it is probably better for DC to learn about Plan Bs etc, whilst still at home. DD's school was very clear that University applications, if you are aiming for competitive courses, should be viewed as a two year process.

DD has three exams next week and then the half term break. Four more exams after, as she is taking 5 subjects. She is still very calm, and has gone out to "revise" with friends. If she pulls it off and gets the results she wants without losing sleep or losing calm, we will be very impressed. If not, and as above, she will learn some lessons.

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Marni23 · 18/05/2015 12:03

Morning all. Another week begins...

DD had 2nd Latin paper this morning which she felt went well (with her usual caveat of 'you can never really tell'). Only 1 exam to go now, which is on Wednesday.

She had nice news last week-she came in the top 3 of a Cambridge essay competition she entered (won't be more specific as it would out me/her) and has been invited to a prize-giving in Cambridge next month. Her prize is a not-inconsiderable cash sum so she's also very happy about that Grin

Hope exams go well for everyone this week.

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