Approaching the 11+ dilemma with our Y5 boy and wondered if anyone could shed some light on this issue for me. DS is a v. clever boy, but quite anxious/sensitive so needs somewhere academic AND with good pastoral. Have been hearing tales of v. able boys being taken out of W Under because the pressure was too much and they'd become little shadows of their former selves. Hearing that Colet Ct has got rid of their 13+ internal exams so actually less pressured environment than W Under. Does anyone have any experience of either from the inside? DH went to Colet/St Pauls and admits it was quite a narrow, hot house educational experience (turned out ok for him, but may not suit DS). My impression has always been that Westminster suits quirkier kids, but that may be wrong/out of date. Big thanks for anyone who can shed some light.