erm.... I can't really see the point of this thread 
Educational provision in this country is so patchy and variable that if you live near a decent school, then you're lucky and why would you get sucked into angst about secondary transfer? But most of the people on here who are anxious about where their dc are going to go don't have that luxury. If some of the schools round here were my only realistic option, I would be selling my kidney to get my child a route out.
Why sneer at parents who don't want their child to go somewhere with a permanent police presence and where there's a culture of violence and low achievement - and believe me, there are plenty of schools like that around, just as there are plenty with fantastic pastoral care and good teaching and decent facilities and a good mix of abilities and kids. It's just inverted snobbery and that's as unpleasant to witness as the normal kind ....
The real outrage is that state education isn't all decent/good/bog-standard - why don't you vent your ire on the system that produces and tolerates such huge variations in standards, rather than the parents who are left to navigate their way through it?