OK. So if your partner earned £120k pa and bought the following, with no discussion with you, you'd have no issue with any of it at all:
The largest single transaction, in 2020, was £124,550 for a luxury motorhome, paid for entirely with party funds. Murrell was accused of creating false documents to disguise the payment as a legitimate party expense.
His first major purchase, a £33,000 Volkswagen Golf, was made in early 2016 using £16,489 of SNP money.
He used £57,500 of party cash to buy a Jaguar I-PACE car in 2019, and sold it for £47,378.76 two years later.
Murrell also used SNP funds to purchase two Bremont watches for a total of £9,350, a £4,225 Starwalker World Time fountain pen and a £3,500 Hamilton and Inches silver wine coaster.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4g4q7yl3kno