This is pretty much top of my Things I’m Fretting About list.
Usually all three of my adult sons come to us for Christmas. The plan was the same this year, with ds1 bringing his fiancée - but under the current rules, none of them can come.
Ds1 and his fiancée live together, but can’t go to her parents this Christmas, because her brother and family will be there. Ds2 lives alone, but has a girlfriend, and ds3 is a student who lives with his girlfriend in a privately rented flat, not Halls of Residence.
If Nicola changes the rules to allow students to come home, that will apply to ds3 - but if students aren’t allowed home, will that be just students in Halls of Residence, or all students?
Ds2 is a teacher, so is probably the highest risk of all three of them for being in touch with someone Covid positive - so what does he do at Christmas? He has a standing invitation to go to his girlfriend’s family, and ewe would love to have him here - but in either case, he’d be breaking the rules as they stand at the moment (though maybe not at Christmas, if the rules change).
And I don’t know what would feel worst - having just one of the three of them at home for Christmas, and knowing that one is with someone else’s family, and the other is having Christmas with just his fiancée and their puppy, or having two of them here, and worrying that ds1 will feel left out (because it seems pretty clear already that it isn’t going to be possible for them to come - I don’t see the rules changing that much).
The whole thing is frying my brain.