As it happens, dh's employment terms changed recently, so his job and pension are now based in England - they were previously based in Scotland - and since his mum's sad death last year, we now have enough money to fund a move if we want to go.
I don't want to move - neither of us do - we love where we live and we love the many friends we have made here, but the referendum campaign last year was horribly stressful and created such huge, painful divisions, that we don't want to live through that again.
I honestly think Scotland needs a number of years of stability, economic growth, and healing, before there is the possibility of another referendum. And I think the current uncertainty is really damaging.
I would respect Nicola Sturgeon far more if she would give a definitive answer - whether that answer was 'No, there will be no referendum within the life of the next Holyrood parliament, if the SNP have a majority' or 'Yes, if we get a majority at Holyrood, we will be holding another referendum' - either way, we would know where we stand.
Saying 'If something changes, we will see that as a mandate for a referendum' without giving any clue what 'something' actually means, is frankly weasel-political-wording, imo - because then anything can be defined as the 'something' that mandates a new referendum.