This is making me feel like I spend way too much.
I've recently been living (temporarily) on fixed income (but soon to go back to work)
No mortgage but standing orders are still £1400 (bills, charity donations, essential insurance, gym, private health - I have joint issues so need the physio)
Food (so expensive!) about £600 a month for 3 of us
Then all the rest.
Going out / lunch or dinner out occasionally £400 (£100 a week - quite a lot? )
Travel /fuel £100 or so
Other stuff - haircuts, toiletries, presents, gardening supplies, bird food at least another £100-200
So in total £2700 minimum a month, excluding holidays, repairs to,the house, car maintenance, new glasses, dentist etc.
So that's net £32,400 a year, (more gross).
I'm used to a much bigger income (not a stealth boast) and it's quite a shock at a) how quickly the money goes and b) how much we spend on non essentials.
I'm of the view that retirement should be about relaxation and finally having the time to do what you've always wanted. Sadly, that doesn't seem in reach if most. it's going to be a bit tight to have the comfortable lifestyle my parents did after retirement.
and before anyone starts throwing rocks at me, I've lived on (and below) the breadline in my life and know how bloody awful it is. That's one of the reasons I intend to enjoy my dotage as much as I can and don't live more frugally than I need to (a very privileged position I know).
That's a very long way to say that for me and DH 25k is realistic (once our kids are no longer dependents) but would mean cutting out some fun stuff, not going on holiday and not spending on new clothes etc unless we really had to. Living is expensive. ^^