We've been early retired about nine years now (husband at 57, me 61) and took our workplace pensions early (my husband has one, and I have two from different occupations). My state pension has now kicked in and my husband will get his shortly). We find having a basket of income, savings and investments works for us. Our income once state pension fully kicks in will be roughly £38k which is comfortable for us as we have a simple lifestyle. We moved to a more modern property just before the pandemic and the reason for this was to have a smaller garden but mainly to be nearer to our daughter. We did manage to release a bit of equity, which will be given to our family when they decide they're ready to move to a slightly bigger house. This has been held off for now until they see which way the property market goes as it feels unstable at the moment.
Our biggest outgoing is the council tax (Band E house), we've gone down to one car and once our grandson goes to school and we no longer look after him our petrol bill will decease massively as we can use bus passes to get into our nearest City. I took a risk recently and fixed our energy costs - EE at 24% over the present price cap, fixed for two years. Obviously not sure how that will work out, but it gives us certainty - looked at the MSE website for advice on that. For things to improve our house (recently had an old gas fire replaced) and projected other stuff including new sliding doors we contribute equally from our savings. We go out to breakfast a couple of times a month and have days out. I lunch with a friend about once a month. I love clothes and have an extensive wardrobe, sporadically added to from mainly T L Maxx. Not interested in foreign travel at the moment - too much hassle. I love my garden but grow loads of stuff from seed and propagate from existing plants and shrubs too.
The thing that gives me peace of mind financially is knowing that even though it's not huge - this income is regular - and we both have good savings as back-up. We contribute the same amount each to bills, but have completely separate finances apart from that.