I had a traumatic birth experinece, with stitches from episiotomy and 3rd degree tear, which healed ok, but I have no idea why I have just gone off sex alltogether...my DC is 15 mo so we have had it like few times and it hurt like hell and that puts me off big time. I am quite small down there , so maybe thats why it hurts.... Sometimes I wonder did they stitch me too much Also I m like 1,5 st overweight which does not boost my confidence......I do not know, jst not interested much, bit lazy.....