How long does it take you to orgasm

[NotTellingU]

I can only orgasm by using my vibrator and even then it can take an hour. Does my head in. I get right on the verge loads of times and then it goes away. Can anyone have an orgasm through penetration?

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[fairyfly]

Have you tried rining 0898 numbers, they can be so much fun

[Mytwopenceworth]

www.sexdoc.com
www.ediets.com
www.femalefirst.co.uk

would probably be more appropriate sources of help and advice for such a personal issue than a general board. You would be able to find professional help and advice. Good luck.

[hunkermunker]

Boden?

[snafu]

yawn

[hercules]

Ooh, another spotty teenager!

[Gobbledigook]

Baby pasta anyone?

[WideWebWitch]

Boden's phone number is 0845 677 5000

[snafu]

Oh, check the archives GDG

[fairyfly]

Yes have a wank at the beautiful dresses which should replace all husbands, you'll be grand

[snafu]

I'd rather have a pair of flowery wellies than a vibrator anyday.

[fairyfly]

I'd rather have some pure cotton sheets than a flowery welly

[lovecloud]

Hi

After years of orgasming by chance I worked out how to guarantee myself an orgasm... but it maybe different for everyone else

Basically women need to get mentally aroused as well as physical unlike men.

Lie there, close your eyes and start a fantas, think about a scene that really turns you on, start from the very beginning, imagine your self getting saucier and hotter, do not touch yourself at all during the first part. just think about receving and giving lots of foreplay, really imagine it. then when you are starting to feel turned on, imagine in your fantasy you are about to have sex only then start to ouch yourself, the faster you have sex, the faster you masterbate until you imagine you are about to orgasm and bingo! always works for me, i usually wait about 5 seconds and then imagine again that there is someone else about to take me and then i repeat the sex part and orgasm again - aaaahhhhhhhhh! Always works for me, if you think about this too whilst kissing you partner (the forplay part with him obvioulsy ) and wait until you are so turned and near orgasm, stop and start to have sex with him on top, make sure is pelvis is lightly higher than yours, make him press down and you will feel the pressure of his pelvis and his penis on your hot spot, make him rotate his hips slowly ad move up and down, then increase the pressure and speed until....

where is my dh? he should be home by now

[WideWebWitch]

Snafu, your wish is my command!

[fairyfly]

ff's mother collapses on her rosary beads

[WideWebWitch]

Sorry ff, you too

[snafu]

Definition of TMI, see below

[hercules]

I always thought sundays were a bit boring here.

[hercules]

just what I wanted to read on a parenting website on a sundau afternoon.

[snafu]

Oooh, ta, www, they are delightful and much nicer than a gentleman's you-know-what...

[NotTellingU]

Thanks lovecloud. I must admit I do only seem to orgasm once I start to fantasise. I shall be trying out your method very soon!

By the way hercules I'm actually a spotty adult.

[fairyfly]

ff's mother drags ff by the hair to confession for reading such filth

[NotTellingU]

Oh and thanks for links 2p

[Fio2]

Lou33 has come out of hiding then

[hercules]

Oh, come on, do you really think you can post that on a sunday afternoon on a parenting website and people not be wary?

[NotTellingU]

I think whoever is forcing you to read this should be punished as you obviously don't want to.