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he says "abort it!".

60 replies

hasna · 16/06/2010 20:40

hi, im 8 weeks pregnant, 36 and have 5 kids. just told my new partner,25, that i am pregnant, he told me to "get rid of it". i got rid of him.... but now im a single mother again and have to suffer this pregnancy all on me own and im missing him a lot. i am wondering why he would say such a thing? is it something about me? i am a good mum. i thought he loved me....is it love when the man tells you to abort his only first baby? any comments would be appreciated. thanks.

OP posts:
HurleySatOnMe · 16/06/2010 21:37

Right.
You have a shitty relationship history don't you. What draws you to these --twats- men? Have you had counsellign to adress this? Because your dc are being brought up in an abusive environment, with one man after the next it seems. Are you drunk? Your posts seem very incoherent

hasna · 16/06/2010 21:40

no im not drunk... im pregnant. i havent been counselling cause i believe in Allah, i dont drink, im muslim, i pray to him and believe that each and every effort i strive is for the sake of him and to protect children from abusive men. that reminds me, my third prayer is in. Only GOD can deal with men like that. At least im free of them and look forward to a bright and beautifull future and world. with peace, thanks and love to all. i sign out. love you guys. xxxxx

OP posts:
Alouiseg · 16/06/2010 21:42

Troll off and find someone of your own mental age to play with.

EleanorHandbasket · 16/06/2010 21:42

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Message withdrawn

hasna · 16/06/2010 21:43

yea trolling off Alouiseg ; love you too.

OP posts:
TheJollyPirate · 16/06/2010 21:43

Okay folks - get the judgey pants off and stop asking such impertinent questions about how many fathers etc. The OP has said she can afford to care for her children and works - end of discussion really and nobody elses business how many fathers there are.

TheJollyPirate · 16/06/2010 21:44

Unless she/he is a troll of course in which case get the judgey pants back on and judge away........

ShadeofViolet · 16/06/2010 21:47

Not another one

PosyPetrovaPauline · 16/06/2010 21:51

golly gosh!

Mouseface · 16/06/2010 22:00

Cripes! With all due respect, prehaps the OP's first language is not English which is why her posts seem a little 'broken'?

Why did she go so soon????

Alouiseg · 16/06/2010 22:04

Cos "she" is probably a he.

5 kids? 3 fathers? One removed due to a psycho comment.

I'm not saying it doesn't happen but there's too much weirdness tonight.

Trolls abound.

PosyPetrovaPauline · 16/06/2010 22:08

dontcha miss the good old days when we could all cry troll?

Alouiseg · 16/06/2010 22:10

I don't let it hold me back

Mouseface · 16/06/2010 22:10

Alouiseg.

What the feck is going on with MN at the mo?

It's Trolltastic!!!

I always find it bloody ridiculous when a poster fucks the fuckity orf after a few posts - like they can't cope or have got the reaction they wanted.

Where have the days of 'giving the benefit of the doubt gone'????? Oh yeah, destroyed by Trolls.

It seems alot of MNers feel they are being trolled at present...........

Tis shit!

Alouiseg · 16/06/2010 22:15

FellatioNelson thinks that Take a Break magazine has come to life on these pages.

I'm more inclined to think that Jeremy Kyle is running a few test cases past us.

mumblechum · 16/06/2010 22:21

It's like everything the Daily Mail really hates all rolled into one handy basket case.

Mouseface · 16/06/2010 22:23

It's very JK!!!! I feel like I'm in a fooking soap opera with all these fabricated threads.........

It's such a shame for those who genuinely ask for help and now get questioned because of prehaps slightly 'odd' or unusual circumstances.

Shame.

FellatioNelson · 16/06/2010 22:25

Erm...ok, he may have said he wanted three children, but did he actually say he wanted them now, and with you? Or did you just assume that? For 25 he's sounding quite mature and level-headed TBH. Not level-headed enough to use contraception, but at least he has a damage limitation strategy. After all, 6 children from 4 fathers, three of whom were clearly rather poor role models is going some, isn't it? Which particular branch of your beloved Islam allows all this, by the way? You'll have to enlighten me.

mumblechum · 16/06/2010 22:35

Arf FN

FellatioNelson · 16/06/2010 22:38

Actually, the more I think about it, the more this is someone up to mischief. Just look at the title. Tell me what you see.........?

Mouseface · 16/06/2010 22:39

I see the opening titles to JK!!!!!!!

FellatioNelson · 16/06/2010 22:41

Ok, time's up. Sorry - can't stand it any longer. It's a tabloid strapline. With appropriate inverted commas. Do we think the excessively fertile OP uses appropriate inverted commas? I rest my case.

Alouiseg · 16/06/2010 22:41

No capital letter!!

That's very naughty ;-)

Alouiseg · 16/06/2010 22:45

If it was the Dm it would have a ? Rather than a !.

The Sun perhaps?

FellatioNelson · 16/06/2010 22:48

What?

Put that Gavi down and concentrate woman!