Advice please. . got the OW coming round to collect Ds.

[maltesers]

Any advice is greatly appreciated. Have never clapped eyes on the OW, even though my Ex has been with her for 18 months. The Ex is busy next Sat, so he is getting his girlfriend to come round to collect my DS, to go to Dads for the nite. Do I smile sweetly or do I tell her what dangerous water she has got herself into and its only a matter of time before he starts getting aggressive and treats her the way he treated me. Mentally and physically abusive . I guess i should say nothing as it will only look like sour grapes. She may well be finding out herself anyway by now.

I agree with Doodlez. "Nice to meet you. Ds talks about you a lot. Have a lovely time. Byee".

There is however, NOTHING more satisfying than a joint character assassination session on a mutual ex.

I had the pleasure of this when my first marriage was failing and had an illuminating conversation with his first wife, who wished she had left him a lot sooner, and had had similar experiences of his sexual and financial weirdnesses. T'was very validating indeed.

Bide your time maltesers....you may get your chance too.

Hell no, not in my worst nightmares !!!! dont want him back.

Hell no, not in my worst nightmares !!!! dont want him back.

He has probably said to her everything that he is, but the other way round.

No not in my worst nightmare do i want him back.. She can have him foul temper and all.!!