Can we survive a one night stand?

[SAD31]

My husband has today found out I had a one night stand.
It was the biggest mistake of my life i wasnt happy with my husband at the time but it made realise that I did want a future with him.
Can our relationship survive.
I don't need telling how stupid I've been as I've been suicidal and regret it so much.
He wants to give our relationship another go.
We have been together since we were 17 and have 3 beautiful DS.
Has it made anybody relationship stronger or will it never get back on track
please help

Yes, it's fine. Many affairs make a marriage, it wasn't premeditated......... Let it pass. Stop beating yourself up. You aren't owned by him.

You know you’ve betrayed him and obviously hoped he’d never find out. Do you think he can trust you? Do you think you can trust yourself in future? If the answer is yes - and you want to repair your relationship, then you need to get to the bottom of where and how things led you to going out on your own and drinking to oblivion. He’s obviously not meeting your needs. It’s a shame you are now in a place where he won’t think you deserve his efforts to meet what you need - but - if you’d been mine, and ended up feeling so miserable - I’d want to think about what has really been going on.

This was 8 years ago, I'm sure they've sorted it one way or another by now

They've had 8 years to work it out or not. ZOMBIE