Over my husbands shoulder I saw what seemed like an odd email talking about a sex website so I sent a text to my friend gave her his email and password and got her to forward everything to me, she did this and deleted any evidence anyone had sent anything.
When I looked at it further he had created a profile on a sex website saying he was looking for no strings fun. I created a profile and my friend emailed him as a woman looking for fun, he took the bait and replied and arranged to meet ?her? my friend was emailing when I was with him so he wouldn?t have any idea it was me?.the day he took her number and said he would go to her house for some fun I flipped and could no longer pretend I didn?t know?.i confronted him and he said he joined the website as a bit of fun with the blokes at work and knew it was me and was replying cos he thought it was funny. I told him I didn?t believe him and he went to stay at his parents. After 5 days he came back due to pressure from him and my dd. I know deep down he didn?t think it was me and I wish I had waited to see if he meet ?her? this happened in November and I just cant stop thinking about it?.ive just read his emails again and I def know by reading it he didn?t know it was me and still feel so hurt, im just not sure I can forgive him?I can plod along and ignore it but im just confused, I really wish id let him meet up?.i also know he didn?t know it was me cos the day before I confronted him he kept asking if I was ok, the next morning he had changed his password
sorry this is long and im not really sure if im after advice or actually maybe your opinions would be good please?!?!!???
Thanks!!!!