Painful sex

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I have a problem with painful sex and I've never suffered with it before, just with current DP. He is "larger" than average and we have to buy larger condoms etc but I find it quite painful.

The worst bit is the "soreness" down there, especially the next morning but also during sex my stomach starts to hurt sometimes. If we're doing it "doggy" style (sorry It REALLY hurts me inside, again around the stomach.

This isn't normal is it? I mean, he's not freakishly big so it shouldn't cause this many issues should it?

As an example of it, we had sex last night and I won't be able to have sex again for around 2 days. Not normal I know. Has anyone experienced this?

Im going to go back this week as my Depo injection is due on 2nd so im going to speak to them then to tell them that bleeding hasnt stopped and sex still painful. hopefully she wont faff about and send me to a gynecologist,

I used to get this type of pain you are describing OP,i went to the gp about it & & i got referred to the gynae specialist.

It turns out i had cervical erosion due to scar tissue forming from a colposcopy op i had had yrs ago.

I had to go in to hospital & he cut away the scar tissue,i had to stay in overnight (which was lovely as it was in a private hospital) as he slipped with his scalpel & cut a bit too much off [very ouchy emoticon]

Since then i have had no problems at all.

My DH was wonderful throughout all this,if i started to hurt he would stop immeadiately.

let out an instictive "whinge" and he'll roll his eyes as if I'm just doing it to be awkward!

Wtf !!

Similar thing happened to me, killed our relationship I'm sorry to say. No rolly eyes from him, he would get very upset that he was hurting me. Maybe some women have a shorter canal? Like some men have a shorter penis? No idea but kind of imagined this might be the case?