Pretty sure he is cheating?

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I've name changed - I've posted about this before about 4 months ago and the general consensus was we were stuck in a rut and he probably wasn't cheating.

However, I've just signed us up for online billing with our mobile (joint accounts) and I took the opportunity to look at his bill.

There are 2 numbers that are suspect - neither are in his mobile address book. One he texted only 5 times and the other he called twice @ 00.34 and 01.40am.

How do I find out who they are - have called both go straight to voicemail.

*sorry this hardest part is not the kiss.

Bump again, just hoping WWIFN will see this and anyone else who can decipher his crazy talk.

Mint thankyou so much for responding it's great to get advice from someone impartial. I'm replying via my phone as off out with the girls for dinner and drinks so will keep this short.

Re the house we have set up seperate rooms and emptied my room of anything of his. Also have found the key and keeping it locked when out as I would in a house share. Have drawn up a list of domestic tasks that need doing and how I feel they should be split. Bought a new airer and washing basket for my clothes and got a weekly shop in, splitting the fridge into my food and his.

Re.his.behaviour I do feel like he has been a total coward about the whole thing. I just wish there was a tangible reason for his ambivalence. He said he enjoys spending time with me, we don't row etc. It's all a bit random. I wash my hands of it now!!

I know no-one cares but this is making me feel better!

Had another chat with him today and he admits he kissed one other person and swore of his mothers life that's it.

Some men are such stupid wankers aren't they!!!??

I once knew someone who swore on his kid's life he wasnt shagging around. He was. I dont know why they make such abig thing about swearing on someones life, I bet they would never swear on their own lifes!!

I'm just thinking he has it's so obvious if he wants to continue to lie that his problem! Just wish there was something could learn for this - but I'm guessing all there is to learn is that this man is a tool!