Told my brother's wife he was cheating............

[Bigmistake]

Hey guys tell me if this is out of order.

Recently my bro and his wife have had serious problems and he said that he had had enough and left. I found out that he was having an affair and confronted him and told him that he should tell his wife if only to free her from the guilt that she was feeling that it was not all her fault. He denied having anything to do with other women.

A couple of hours after the confrontation he decided he was going back home. As his wife, (who I also consider a friend) had indicated that she would she would rather know what was going on, I called her and told her about my suspicions.

To cut the long story short I am now the enemy, I know in my heart he has done it, if not with the person in question then with someone else.

Was I out of order or is it a matter of shooting the messanger?

I know that in the begining I said that I would have done it over again, but now i say I wish i had not.

As a wife who was cheated on I say congratulations for telling your friend I would of been really p1$$@d off if my friend knew and didnt tell me.Someone has to tell her if he wasnt man enough.