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I hate my mother.

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Littleblue · 08/05/2010 23:18

I have a friend who has sold furniture..and driven for two days to help tidy up the squalid mess my mother lives in..so it sells before she goes bankrupt..shes pissy with her,and with me,blubbing shes being controlled etc....i'm a single mum with 4 kids and my own business,plus another P/T job yadda yadda...shes not speaking to me tonight cos she asked me..whilst i was barrowing around HER weeds and general crap..to empty machine and go pick up her dirties and wash em..after hanging up the stuff in the machine of course..I ignored her.she went swanning off to look at 'properties'(to duly wreck)...arranged some flowers in a vase before she went..had a viewing today,2 hours earlier than she said...dogshit ALLLL over the garden.I can't fucking bear the woman.

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fishingboat · 09/05/2010 00:21

oh that bad!!!

Nemofish · 09/05/2010 00:30

Are you me?!

I hate my mother too. I have nowt to do with her now but I appreciate not everyone feels able to do that.

You sound like an amazingly capable woman, btw, especially in the circumstances.

thesunshinesbrightly · 09/05/2010 00:40

Nice

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Littleblue · 09/05/2010 05:47

Thank you Nemofish...I can't drop her,but shes planning on moving further away,so i'm hoping that comes off soonest before we have another cataclysmic row.
Her attitude depresses me.

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tuarags · 09/05/2010 08:13

Thats very sad.

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Littleblue · 09/05/2010 09:16

Yup,shes very manipulative..leaves me to clean when theres dried up dog slurry in the house,shouts for me to bring her a coffee before she even greets me when i go over..i do love her but its heavily loaded!!

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sarah293 · 09/05/2010 09:25

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Littleblue · 09/05/2010 09:32

I think its taught me to be a better mother to my own children,my mother slags me off to all and sundry,ive caught her at it...she puts me down to big herself up..im proud of my children,they are amazing..always will be,to me.as for martyr..i can smell burning lol

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Littleblue · 10/05/2010 16:08

Her partners muttering at me that she shouldnt be pressured to sell her house..she wont tell him how bad things are in case he dumps her..but does things like send me weird texts about cracking up..then wont answer her phone til i threaten to call the police to check she's safe..she attempted suicide last year.
O DO have things i'd rather be doing..my house is a tip,and im turning down work to help her get it sold.SO pissed off.

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