im a regular and have name changed,
i have a best male friend,we were so close and spoke and text every single day from early morning to late at night.
about a month ago we both got drunk, me very him not so and we ended up sleeping together,i woke up the next morning and panicked and told him i wish it had never happened, i was angry and confused.
we agreed to put it behind us but all we have done is argue over it and fall out since,he is very hurt and said that i made him feel small and he feels like he did something bad.
i have apologised until the cows come home but he is still upset, we do have feelings for each other,we have spoken about it but i have just got divorced and still am scared of meeting another man in case they turn out to be like exdh who cheated on me.
i dont know how to get past this its awful,i dont know how to be around him anymore and he has told me that he thinks i hate myself for it which i dont know if i agree with that, sorry for the long rambling message but i feel very .