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ex dh won't babysit, asked neighbour, ex dh not happy with choice

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SpiritualKnot · 25/04/2010 17:02

Split up with dh last month. He left and has a girlfriend. Ex dh and I were going to go to the theatre Monday,I bought tickets yonks ago, now Im going with a friend. Asked ex dh if he'd watch 10yr old dd for an hour and a half as 18yr old ds needs to out at 8pm so can't be with her the full evening.

Ex dh says she'll be ok on her own for that time. I disagree and asked if he would sit with her. He says the 14 mile round trip isn't worth it for that length of time. So I've asked our neighbour and she said she's happy to help.

Just told ex dh ( he's just dropped dd off) and he was really annoyed as he's not keen on neighbour. I asked if he could do it then and he won't, he's just not interested at all in helping. He spposedly adores our dd.

Just wanted to vent. Is a 14 mile round trip far to other people aswell? He works in the town where we live so does it every day and is on leave at the moment and has no plans for the evening, he says.

SK

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SpiritualKnot · 26/04/2010 16:14

Update: they're fine to do it as 2 cheques. Amount of paperwork they want is dumb though. Original papers (from about 15yrs ago), update reports from 1994 and 2005 and a letter from the building society. They've obviously got everything in front of them as they told me what was needed and they sent the original stuff and reports.

Pain!

SK

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dignified · 26/04/2010 16:30

Hope your going to treat yourself !

SpiritualKnot · 26/04/2010 16:41

You bet!

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