Making sex more Interesting

[DevonshireCat]

Okay, a dad here, but I need some advice. DP and me have sex about every month if all goes well. Always vanilla, no buildup, lights off. Loads of love but no excitement.

I think a bit more interest would be great for us both but I have no idea what to do next. I like to think I am open to suggestions. When I make even mild suggestions to DP they are though about but quietly dropped.

Starting to feel like we might have to carry on like this but dont want to see a future where there's no variety or intensity.

How can I encourage DP to join me in trying something a bit more interesting and what would you start with?

this is going to end up getting very over-sharey again

are you a hairy trucker, Dev ?

< tumbleweed >

lol

clicking 'watch this tread'

Id like to say this might be "over sharey" but am looking for almost tame suggestions!!!

hhhmmmm
Also watching

there are lots of threads of a similar nature...go and have a pull look at those if you want suggestions

Come on ladies, he might be genuine.

Buy a book. Barefoot Doctor quite good.

Also, foreplay should be all day every day, not just in the ten minutes before you shag.

Will that do?

why are we sceptical??

Have a browse on Love Honey. We took a delivery of three items from there yesterday and they certainly helped last night

Other threads are all about a sideways move to other exciting things. this is starting from scratch.

One of my old lecturers packed her job in to be one of the Barefoot Doctor's concubines, apparently. So he must have been doing something right. Or just had very large bare feet as an enticement...

Doing It somewhere other than the bedroom
Different times of the day
etc etc

ok, ok < hold hands up >

I will be nice

But I ain't sharing any of my bedroom tips with him

I'd shag him, BoF.

Yum.

Interesting first post though...

maybe a trucjer may not be - but get yourself to love honey & get some oils undies.

agree ref touchy feely suspense 7 tease during the day etc....

trucker even!!

i agree with the comment by bobbie, foreplay should be all the time not just before sex

start by making her feel good about herself in general, not just when you want a piece, and not just in a sexual way

I'm offended, surely all he's got to do is look up some of my delicious posts?

Why isn't there a storming off in a huff smilie?

Why not try spanking her all the way up the stairs - it got DH more than a cup of tea this morning.

I was wondering if the bad back would give us some respite, Mal, but if he's managing the stairs and spanking, I guess not...

OP...just do a search on Mal's threads

That should sort you out

...or put you off for life....

{grin}

or should I say