Has anyone ever gone to a swingers club or party before?

[AfricoAngel]

Just curious....

Nah, I didn't fancy either of them

i just think you can't tell with the look of womeone whether "there in to it " can you?

was talked into going with ex boyfriend- was curious- got there and was gobsmacked- i think i was a bit naive but i didnt expect it to be so full on!!! have to say it did nothing for me - and i became a bit prudish all of a sudden, and wouldnt get involved- so we ended up just watching ! my ex boy/friend loved it- and i believe he and his new girlfriend go all the time

i know i think thats the problem you think it won't be to bad but i can imagine getting there alike you and think oh my god! lol

like you nova,i have been to fetish clubs with ex i used to go to skin two parties.
my hubby is a bit prudeish, he says hed go and then backs out and i dont have anything to wear but would love to go again.
i used to work with a guy that djed at tg cant remamber his name but he went off to train as a social worker.
as for swinging my dad is single but goes to sex parties.
gog my hubby is dull

i would of thought men would be more up for it than women, what does your hubby say bump?

I've got a MASSIVE pampas grass in my garden!

well he likes the idea of people watching us but when i sugest going to a party to make that a reality he says hes not going to a party with a load of wierdos, i have shown him some fetish web sites i think hes boring and scared.

Nope, never will either thanks.

Bump - my DH DJ's at TG, we're good friends with David and Allen who run the club. We're going tomorrow night actually, and i'm rapidly running out of things to wear as bump gets bigger. Hope you get to go again, i'm sure your DH wouldn't mind once he sees you all dressed up

I think a club is a better place to start than a party as there's more people and less pressure, although if the parties are well run there shouldn't be any pressure to get involved on your first visit. Also, if a party is well run it shouldn't be full of 'weirdos' as most of them don't allow single men, you should find it full of regular people who happen to like having sex with other people while other people watch.

sounds like the club you go to nova is a really well set up one and wouldn't put anyone under pressure