For those of us not getting any

[needabonk]

Name changed having just read the 'what do you do with the mess after sex' thread and ARRRRRGGHHHH I am soooo jealous!

I want sweaty, slidy sex!

I want the 'bother' of what to do with the goo. Panty pad? Fuck that, I'd happily swap my boring clean sheets for sleeping in the stickiness and feeling like I'd been thoroughly ravaged.

God I need a good bonk. And I know who I want it with too, (not DH, absolutely nothing going on there) but that's a whole other thread...

Trouble is, I am like a dog on heat. Any male with a pulse I'm seeing as potential shag material. I've tried sweaty workouts at the gym. I've tried fun on my own and I know I need a vibrator but what the fuck else can I do to calm my hormones down? And don't suggest sex with DH. I just do NOT want to.

Gagging for it and deeply jealous of you lot on that other thread!

Am I the only one here not getting any?

I feel even more tragic. And

Erm why are you in a marriage with someone who so obviously repulses you??

Why are you still with your not-so-dH? You need to separate. How old are you?

get a vibrator then.
or a fuckbuddy,
leave your dh and be free

As I said that's a whole other thread. And I didn't start this for a lecture.

Well woman up and sort your life out then. Either work things out with your DH or split and go get some with somebody else.

Lusting after strangers whilst having a dysfunctional relationship at home is not healthy.

Till then buy a rampant rabbit.

Christ all I said was a want a bonk.

or a cold shower?

So what do you want from posters?

fortyplus, what has my age got to do with anything?

you can probalby get mailorder vibrators.
go girl

A bit of empathy, but it seems I am the only one stuck in a sexless marriage but unable to leave. Congrats to all the rest of you.

needabonk,

I know exactly how you feel. Unfortunately, writing it here is totally different to how things happen in RL.

After 8 years I just want to do the deed as it were before I forget what to do...

Thanks slarty. At last, some kinship!

ride a bike?

I know how you feel sometimes needabonk.

How about getting a lover? ;)

Needabonk,

no you aren't the only one in that kind of marriage. I know others will come along saying get out, but it isn't always that simple, is it?

Eight years??? Ouuuch, poor you ineedabodytransplant. Don't you just wish you had the messy sex dilemma once in a while? Lucky buggers.

you're not the only one OP

my DH won't have sex with me because he "loves his mistress"!

Oh thank the lord it's not just me. I thought I was about to be flamed for having needs and hormones then. A lover. Hmmm. Nice thought (and as I said I know just who) but as ineedabodytransplant wisely said, RL doesn't work like that.

Ride a bike . I like that.

Or the spin cycle on the washing machine

clean, messy I don't care!!!!

vidia!!!!!!

I'm in a sexless marriage too. I will leave one day, but it's not that simple, is it? Can't say I'm absolutely gagging for it, but it's only been six months.

i know how you feel. wish i didnt.but at least, my feeling like that is well in the past.
close your eyes, dream of edward cullen, and just do the deed with your dh. settling for what you can get, isnt so bad. not getting any is far far worse.

also, lol, go to the annsummers website. some really lovely toys there.

ineed - you genuinely have me puzzled, you always post about your 8 year sex drought yet you never actually post anything else about your wife/marriage or ask how you might possibly go about resolving the situation.

What would your wife say if you looked her in the eye and said " I would like to have sex with you again, we're missing out on so much by not having any intimacy, don't you feel the same way? " .

Have you never sat her down and asked her?

OP, if you don't want sex with your H - isn't it about time you ended the marriage?