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Does your DH make you feel good

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stradivarious · 03/03/2010 11:57

about yourself? I'm so fed up and sad because DH always passes negative remarks about me. He sees incapable of having a mature adult conversation without it turning into a nasty argument. He tells me I am like a child, I will never be happy with anything, the list goes on. I often wonder if he really believes this statements to be true or is he just trying to be top dog so to speak. I feel so sad today and it hurts too much.

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WhenwillIfeelnormal · 07/03/2010 19:55

Spot on Deste. I thought that too.

AnyFucker · 07/03/2010 20:04

I am thinking this is the lady who is unable to buy china or curtains for the house, even though they are minted....

correct me if I am wrong

WhenwillIfeelnormal · 07/03/2010 20:06

Yes, of course it is.

skinnyhinny · 11/03/2010 20:30

Strad, Don't bother with all this psycho babble, Relate and strong woman standing up to him bollocks!!! I lived like that with my H for years and it just wore me down and down and down so much that now that he's turned a corner and had some sort of character bypass (he's finally found inner peace at 43) and is sweet as pie I don't want him anymore! The problem is that I can't leave now as he's changed!!!! It would look like I was the baddy. Leave while you still can, run as fast as you can and don't look back. Find someone who actually appreciates you and makes you feel worthwhile as a person and a woman. Life is very very short, don't waste it on this wanker x

ItsGraceAgain · 11/03/2010 21:50

Ummm, skinnyhinny, might I just remind you there's no "Strictly Relationships" panel awarding points for good behaviour!

You can end it just because. That's the joy of modern life, and hard-won at that.

Think on

skinnyhinny · 11/03/2010 22:10

Ah bless you grace. You are so right. it's just that now he's a broken man after several months of relate and me finally getting my chance to tell him what a shit he was for all those years. He is desperate to be the man he should have been all those years and now after I've gone cold I can't bring myself to leave this broken wreck. all I'm saying to this poor lady is to get out. It's my clumsy way I suppose. God I wish I could go to her house, pack her bags and look after her until she becomes the person she should be. I should have left years ago and now find I can't. I simply don't want that to happen to her. I may be Reading this all wrong so please forgive me if I am x

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