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Update from a very happy OJ for those that have been asking.

35 replies

onlyjoking9329 · 02/03/2010 15:53

for those that were asking how things are with us............... The last few years have been somewhat difficult here as you all probably know, we had a lot of support from MN when Steve was ill and when he died.
that was 21 months ago now, me and the kids are doing very very well.
I am still in love and being loved by the most gentle and amazing man, althou he had no hands on experience of autism he is doing very well all three kids love Tom and his two kids.
we have just come back from our first holiday together which was beautiful and amazing in equal measures.
we are planning to get married next year possibly
i can't believe how lucky i am to have found such a lovely lovely bloke, i thought i had had my quota of love.
thankyou for all your ongoing support.

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WeNeedToLeaveInFiveMinutes · 02/03/2010 15:54

That sounds great .

rubyslippers · 02/03/2010 15:54

that is wonderful news

you and your children deserve a huge amount of happiness

ToccataAndFudge · 02/03/2010 15:58

awww that's lovely OJ

oopsandbabycoconut · 02/03/2010 16:00

OJ that is just fantastic. I am thrilled to hear all is going so well.

LIZS · 02/03/2010 16:02

oh how lovely Thanks for the update.

FiveGoMadInDorset · 02/03/2010 16:05

It is so nice to hear such positive things going on in your life OJ.

Fimbow · 02/03/2010 16:07

How very lovely. Lots of happiness to you OJ you more than deserve it.

YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 02/03/2010 16:11

So glad to hear it OJ. Thank you for the update

Look forward to hearing wedding bells in the not-too-distant future!

TrinityIsFuckingTrying · 02/03/2010 16:13

I'm so so happy for you OJ

Such a wonderful thing to hear

onlyjoking9329 · 02/03/2010 18:37

Thankyou all, we are all very happy.

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CaitlinMeringue · 02/03/2010 18:38
FabIsDoingPrettyWell · 02/03/2010 18:39

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MmeLindt · 02/03/2010 18:39

How wonderful, OJ. So lovely to hear that you are so happy. I was just thinking about you the other day (in a non-stalkery fashion).

notevenamousie · 02/03/2010 18:39

OJ - I am so pleased - many congratulations.

Lovecat · 02/03/2010 18:43

How lovely Congratulations!

FabIsDoingPrettyWell · 02/03/2010 18:44

GrinGrinGrin

RubysReturn · 02/03/2010 18:50

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chocaholic73 · 02/03/2010 21:05

very pleased to hear this OJ

101damnations · 02/03/2010 21:36

I'm really pleased for you all,this is fabulous news.
Congratulations.

midnightexpress · 02/03/2010 21:43

Aww OJ, that's fantastic to hear. So happy for you, and glad you had a great holiday.

Hulababy · 02/03/2010 21:45

It is great to hear you so happy

Lilyloo · 02/03/2010 21:50

Fab news OJ

jofeb04 · 02/03/2010 21:51

That's great news OJ

onlyjoking9329 · 02/03/2010 21:55

It just goes to show that you never know what is around the corner sometimes it's something better than you could imagine.
Toms very comfy with the kids and talks to them about their Dad, when we were in lanzarote we all went down to the beach where Steves ashes were, Elliot took tom to show him where his dad was, i know steve and tom would have got on very well together.

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triffictits · 03/03/2010 00:25

I had already read about your engagement OJ but I am so pleased and happy for you that things are going so well.

And you may be getting married....bloody marvellous!

Tom sounds a lovely man and so nice that your dc's are so comfortable with him and can share Steve's memory with him.