Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Met a fun guy

9 replies

partytime · 28/02/2010 17:56

I have met a fun, good looking man at a local pub. I have checked him out with a friend of a friend who knows him. He has asked to see me again and I have his number. He has suggested I ring him if I am certain I want to see him again next week. How long should I give it before I ring? I don't want to seem a. overly keen and b. desperate.
Should I wait and see if he rings me first?
I'm too long out of this dating game.

OP posts:
sugarush1 · 28/02/2010 19:35

If it was me - I would wait for him to call me. If he really likes you he should call.

warthog · 28/02/2010 19:42

wait for him to call.

warthog · 28/02/2010 19:42

although if he asked you to ring him, i'd wait til thursday

lilac21 · 28/02/2010 20:12

He has asked you to ring him, so do that. Why play games? Don't ring, and you are saying 'I'm not interested'.

I'm not saying you should always be the one making contact and fixing up a date, but if he has given you some space to think about getting to know him better, that's no bad thing.

Call him by Tuesday at the latest!

partytime · 01/03/2010 08:08

Good advice, thanks, I think I may will wait until Thursday if he hasn't called me. Although I did send a txt to say it was good to meet him and thanking him for being such good company.

OP posts:
AnyFucker · 01/03/2010 12:08

if the way you left it, was that you ring him, then you ring him

its simple innit

don't wait for him to ring...blokes are very literal and will take it that you are not interested in these particular circumstances

leave it 'til Thursday though

partytime · 01/03/2010 17:31

Thanks girls, sounds like a plan. Got a mate checking up on him though very discretely to make sure he is on the level.

OP posts:
partytime · 05/03/2010 07:53

Update - left a voice msg and then txt, no reply.
I am disappointed, he seemed genuine.

OP posts:
TiggyD · 05/03/2010 09:35

Just turn up at his house in a wedding dress and ring his doorbell with your tongue. He'll get the message that you're available.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page