Anyone else thinking of promoting their *H* back to *DH* for *VALENTINES* DAY???

[MrsForgetful]

(if only to make typing on mumsnet easier...as remembering to only type H when you've typed DH for years is hard to do!!!

Nope - Dont think he will ever be a D again.

And to be fair, he worked very hard to be relegated to just H. He would have to do something pretty spectacular to regain the D.

yes...last week i was seeing my H's future as XH.
And i am aware that as MN IS my real life ()that if i let my guard down and call him DH too soon...he will start treating me like dirt again...

I find referring to him as just H on here... reminds me of how low he stooped and how easily it could all go back to being shite again.

the reason i posted this, is this is the 1st valentines day that i feel unable to 'celebrate' with him...christmas was hard too- i eventually found a card that said more than Happy Christmas...but had no 'lies' inside

i have bought a valentines card...but am still 99% unsure of whether to give it.

No he is H for a reason
And No he is not getting a card even though I know he has got me one

Hes going out at 8am tomorrow... so am tempted to postpone my descision...untill he's gone...