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Claire2009 · 10/02/2010 22:51

I've recently got with someone who I like, I was more curious about him originally, and still am I suppose. I have no strong feelings though, with previous partners there's been a feeling, in the pit of my stomach, even talking to them on the phone. There's nothing with the man I'm seeing, it feels more of a friend relationship than a partner/sexual one!? I've been with him nearly 3wks, and am kinda wondering if the feelings will come in time? Or are we not meant to be? I've known him 4mths or so now, but been with him 3wks....

Do I allow time? Or just back-out now before getting stuck in a relationship with no feeling?

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MrsForgetful · 10/02/2010 22:59

(i am writing this...despite having gone through a very rough patch with my H...I am still glad to be with him)

I only started dating my H cos his brother was dating my best friend.

i felt nothing for him

we argued all the time...and i only stayed cos i got a kick out of going out with my bestfriends boyfriends brother!

Then after 6 or so months..i had a crisis...and he was there for me.

and it all changed.

No...never the butterflies in tummy...no head over heels...but we clicked.

we have been 'together' for 24yrs ...married for 22 of them!

i was 19 when we met
we have 3 sons
he was divorced with 2 young kids at the time...it was tough...but despite it all...i am glad we kept trying.

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