I was seeing someone for four months, then, out of the blue, they finshed with me. Long story, there's a few threads knocking about but I'm too ashamed to re-visit them...
Anyway, I have taken him back and here's the dilemma I am seeking advice on...
He finished with me a few days before my birthday. He totally ignored me on my bitthday. recently, when we got back together, he assembled two presents for me, one was a book, the other was a joke present.
It's his bithday looming, seeing as I've taken him back, should I get him anything for his birthday?
I know I am shit for taking him back, this is not the issue, it's a whole other thread.
I don't know what to do: to get him a present is condoning him being a shit, if I get him nothing, then I look like crap...
Do I even care how I look? I really don't know....