Am I being too picky now?

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Just been on a date.. but can't decide if I want to see him again...

I do find him attractive ( lovely jet dark hair, lovely crinkly smile, tall, slim )

And we got on v well. Talked for three hours non stop, he's in a caring profession and is also v creative..

So far so good. But...

1. He talked too loudly ( so people in pub kept looking over) and had a slightly funny way of talking, overemphasising at the end of sentences

2. He had a crumb on the corner of lips, that I couldn't help but stare at. Wish I'd told him.

3. He made a v crass out of context joke on way back, and it completely threw me

NOOOO go with your gut instinct.. If you dont fancy the pants off him and wanted to snog the crumb off his mouth then he is NOT THE ONE... I am a firm believer in chemistry... there as none on your date!!

It might be worth giving him another chance if Hairy is right. Assuming it was his penis he was feeling, of course.

I'd give him another go, he sounds like my DH. I actually giggled at the alopecia/tumour/penis image, which I realise puts me well beyond the pale, so I shall retire from the thread.

Hang on, she said he was very attractive and that she did fancy him. He just made a crap cock joke- God only knows where I'd be if that was a dumping offence

awww bless.. he sounds like he was nervous and he blurted out the cock joke as it popped into his head.

go on another date.

at least you are guranteed he'll say what he's thinking honestly .

true it might occasionally be embarassing... but folk like this can also be hilarious.

he was good looking you say so why not.

but make sure it's somewhere you dont mind him being loud.

were you in a really quiet place for your date and it just seemed louder?

why not take him somewhere louder like restaurant with a live band?

I'd say give it one more try. If he still causes irritation then move on simple allergy testing.

Not a great deal more to add but I am intrigued as to where Grace's pet obsession questions were going?!