help me look into the furure and leave my h.

[labyrinthine]

I want to leave my h who until recently was a bit of a bully but who is now on his best behaviour.
But the family seems happy enough and I can't seem to see a future on my own where I'll manage and be happy.
I can look forward to having my own place but I won't have much money,and I won't see as much of the dcs as they will be alternating.
So it seems better to stay put,except I don't want to be married anymore.

" had my first baby at 27 it's a lovely age."

Argh! I am still a total woman-child. If I had a baby I would probably leave it in a shop by accident (incidentally, ended up on mumsnet looking at stuff about how to be with stepkids but got addicted).

Don't worry about wrinkles etc. I'm sure you see more than other people do when they look at you, and it's all character anyway.

well that's fine since you haven't got a baby lol!~you don't get like that till they arrive so don't worry!

re the wrinkles i think i'm remembering when i was in my twenties and iwould think all older people were ancient even without wrinkles so now i think they must think the same lol

i'm fairly young at heart as i have two teenagers and respective gf and bf so keeps me on my toes.

so i just went to tesco and bought some moisturiser and foundation lol

any tips anyone?

hi laby,

glad to see you're doing ok.

drink loads and loads of water... really good for the skin!

Maybe get a makeover at one of the make-up counters. Have never got up the nerve to do it myself, so if you do I will be impressed!

thanks girls panic about the lines now gone ~ i seem to look ok now maybe it was my cold dragging me down and making me look peaky

i've suddenly got this feeling i've been locked away all these years and now i'm free

hi kat this is my being silly thread