Marital Affair

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It is my 40th birthday tomorrow.Well today. My husband has arranged birthday dinner for 25+ people tonight, details are a surprise. Just been out with my parents tonight, and when I came in his hotmail was open, so i had a sneaky look.
Turns out he has recently joined marital.affair.co.uk.
he has even opened a new folder with all the people who have "winked" at him.
WTF?!!!

Enjoy the dinner and confront him the day after. He may have a reasonable explanation, he may not have done anything yet or even intend to, but he certainly can't complain that you are being sneaky looking at his e-mail when he is winking at others. Sorry I can't be of any more help, just didn't want your message to go unanswered.

Check his mobile and your banck statements for any indication if he has taken this further.

TBH - I would just go ahead with the dinner and deal with you husband afterwards. Confronting him today is not going to achieve any more than waiting. Either way you're going to feel a bit down and edgy for the dinner now but if you confront him first - it will make it worse.

Perhaps use the time before you confront him to do some digging to see if he has acted in his membership or not!

He really hasn't had a chance to do anything yet, he registered between Xmas and new year.
There are no excuses really.
Had a lovely girly day and I am going to have a good night. F*ck him

hope you had a good night and can now deal with this. xx p.s. happy birthday xx