Ideas for Spicing things up please...? Am totally stuck in a rut!

[menandmygirls]

I really need some ideas for spicing things up with my hubby. Had our second dd 6 months ago, and we've only had 'sex' a handful of times. I find it really hard to get into the mood, even though he has quite a high sex drive I often put it off. I need to inject some real 'excitement' and need to get my drive back.

Any ideas on how I can get myself going and inject something different into the bedroom?

Help!!

Dress up as geri Halliwell circa 1996.

roll play ?

The best way of increasing your sex drive when you have a young baby is to schedule a certain amount of regular time when you do something other than childcare/housework ie something for your own benefit. Whatever your particular interests and preferences are doesn't matter that much - see a film, go to a dance class, have a drink with a friend, sit in a nice cafe and read a book for an hour, whatever - but you need time for yourself. (If you are BF it will obviously have to be a bit more 'little and often' - or will your DD take EBM?).
But bear in mind there is no more surefire way to destroy a new mun's libido than for her male partner to do nothing in the way of housework or childcare but to nag and whine and moan continually for sex.

Thanks! I probably do need to have more me-time, although on the whole DH is pretty good.
Not sure about 'Geri' though! Hmmmm!
I'm not BF any longer so feeding isn't too much of a problem.
libido, libido, where are you?