wet dreams, is this normal?

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My husband and I had a baby 4 months ago. sex has not really been high on the agenda since as we're rarely in the same bed for long enough. In fact we've only done it twice in 4 months.

Now husband keeps waking in the night having ejaculated in his shorts! is this normal or a sign something is wrong?

Totally and utterly normal.

A man needs to ejaculate approx once a month due to the build up of sperm, night time emissions are natures way of sorting him out, he's obviously not sorting himself out.

Second what Mal says - totally normal.

Am 12-13 weeks pg and not had sex now for over 2 months (nausea). Asked DH in bed the other night if he had been sorting himself out and he said no but he had had a few wet dreams recently. I asked if I had starred in them and he "couldn't remember"

Third what Mal says - totally normal.

Umm, there isn't really a build-up of sperm. They get reabsorbed if not ejaculated. And, yes, wet dreams are normal.

There is indeed a build up of sperm in the epydidimis and of prostatic fluids.
Sperm take longer than a month to be reabsorbed by the body - I did extensive research before my DH had his vasectomy. It took 6 weeks for the congestion to resolve itself in his case as obviously ejaculation had no effect on the build up.

Thanks for the advice everyone, sorry its taken me so long to reply. I've had a very clingy baby today