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have completely lost my mojo

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jaggythistle · 13/01/2010 19:44

.. tell me it might get better

I have no interest whatsoever, can just about manage cuddling.

Baby is 4 months old, born by em cs after long labour, so I was fairly knackered for weeks, plus got wound infection.

S is ebf, I know hormones can have an effect.

H is trying to be nice about it, but clearly frustrated as I practically cringe away from him.

I want to be interested, but frankly I'd rather have a sleep, or pretty much anything else.

I did try it once after about 9 weeks to see if I'd magically change my mind, had to give up as it was v uncomfortable.

Any advice, hints, tips welcome.

Thanks

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chewitt · 13/01/2010 20:04

It will! 4 months is early days. Last thing you need is pressure as that will put you off even more. Talk to DH - but remember he may be feeling sensitive and rejected at the mo. Say the greatest pleasure he can give you at the moment is a decent cuppa!

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