my husband has spent his money on himself

[fostermum]

which means im to blame,some how! so i am being muttered at under his breath all day i wish he would go away and stay some where else

Oh dear! What's happened?

well things are on the way out anyway between us but he spent his spare money from wages on his moter bike and booze, im going away for a holiday for 3 weeks to new zealand(my home)and he flipped out coz i wont give him my spending money and he says he cant last month with no money

tell him to sell his motorbike.

what an idiot.

what his precious???????????wouldnt even come into his head!

dont know how long i can keep going like this,it making me so stressed it begining to affect my heart again

it sounds like hell, fm.

One strategy I sometimes use to deal with someone whose being verbally abusive to you is to use a "mental mirror" - you just assume the person is talking to themselves. In this case it would be pretty apt because it really is his own fault.

can you go out for a few hours this afternoon?

he's gone out in a mood as it is i spend most of the time we are alone in the house in my room because the silence is deafening,we have our own rooms

I don't know what to say really.

roll on 3 weeks time!