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Has anyone used a PI for a suspected cheating OH?

5 replies

guttedandworried · 11/01/2010 21:58

This is really a general query! It is something I have considerd in the past but due to our perosnal circiumstances would be worried it would be of no benefit and just plain expensive! Anyway - am biding my time for now and getting myself sorted before I take any serious action.

Am just being nosey and would love to hear peoples experiences of using a PI and as to how or why you chose this route?

How did it work? Did it get you the answers you wanted? How did the PI work? and what were the costs?

Anyone willing to share?

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Heated · 11/01/2010 22:18

Friend used one, initially to confirm the truth and to know where they stood, but now the evidence gathered may be used to prove lies submitted in court papers by the other side which has huge bearing on the case.

Used for a 10 day period, cost was the price of a small car(!) but in this instance, if it helps achieve the hoped for outcome, it will have been worth it.

guttedandworried · 11/01/2010 22:43

at the price of a new car!!

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startingovernow · 11/01/2010 23:38

Hi gutted&worried, I used one after much debate & soul searching. Got answers on 1st day so costs were a minimum. I've no regrets. People are creatures of habit so if you know the general times of concern etc it should keep costs to a minimum.

Jade4 · 12/01/2010 00:07

hi, read honey trap email someone suggested this website.

www.ukhoneytrap.co.uk/

let us know if it was worthwhile and does look like it costs the earth.

good luck but would say worth doing to get some answers.

Aussieng · 12/01/2010 20:08

Hi. My mum used one when my dad had her convinced that she was crazy for suspecting something. PI came round and bugged the telephones while dad was at work and then on the basis of info gathered from the telephones turned up at my parents house to get the "money shot" so to speak. All in all less than £200. Mum says the PI was very pleasant, discrete, professional (all in a days work kind of thing) and broke the news sensitively.

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