Anyone tried or curious about male escorts?

[poshsinglemum]

I am single mum and I havn't been shagged or even taken out for over two years.
I would love to go for a nice dinner and possibly more but I am simply not ready for a relationship.
I am beginning to think that it would be lovely to hire a georgeous male escort for my birthday!
Is it a bad idea?

[nooka]

I really think it is highly unlikely that anyone goes into prostitution as a "well-paid preferred career choice". I mean can you imagine how you would react if that was suggested to your son or daughter at school? Street walking might be colder, more dangerous and more associated with drugs but at the end of the day it's all about allowing someone who you don't like or care about use your body in the most intimate way possible.

I don't think that escort agencies are in any way legitimate. To start off with if they are offering more than companionship they are basically illegal pimps. So if you aren't satisfied/get ripped off or otherwise have a bad experience you have no recourse.

Getting totally pissed and picking up a stranger is another very unwise alternative, but it is at least less likely to be associated with organised crime.

I'd recommend weight lifting as an alternative. Exercise is a great mood stabiliser, and the high of pushing a heavy weight is apparently quite orgasmic (my dh used to be a body builder).

[poshsinglemum]

I'm joining a gym in January then I can be buff too and mabe pick up a nice gym bunny!
It's not just about sex- it is about companionship too and I'd never shag an escort if I didn't like him hence dinner first.
I've been with men in bars whove shagged me because they are pissed and don't care at all.
However, knowing me I'd probably break down and want to rescue him for being exploited.

[SueMunch]

This thread remind me of that scene in Blackadder:

"No, how much do you charge for a good, hard shag"!!

[JamesAndTheGiantBanana]

I really think some posters cannot see that there is a difference between poor coerced or desperate drug addled female prostitutes who walk the streets, endure violence and live terrible lives, and men who put themselves forward to work in an escort agency, in order to have sex with women.

I'm betting the money is a bonus to the majority of these men (I've seen men offering their escort services for free on ukclassifieds) especially when they get a client like the op who is by her own admission, attractive.

Men HAVE to be aroused in order to have sex, so calling it tantamount to rape etc is silly - of course there's consent even if money changes hands, and if the guy in question has a hard-on, surely that's further proof of his consent? unless you're going to say that every male escort uses viagra for every encounter.

[JamesAndTheGiantBanana]

Dittany, if the op was to meet a man in a club or online for consensual unpaid sex, she has no guarantee that that man has not been with ny men either. One of my ex's exclusively dated men for many years before "rediscovering" women.

It's up to you to use protection whether you're sleeping with a regular person or an escort - you have no guarantee who is disease free and who isn't.

And you have just as much (or more) chance of being raped by some random fella you've met in a club as you have of being raped by a male escort. There really are no guarantees in life, we take the same chances every time we enter into a sexual encounter with anyone.

[JamesAndTheGiantBanana]

... thinking about it, it seems a bit daft to rape someone when you're there for the specific purpose of having sex with them, anyway!

[JamesAndTheGiantBanana]

I was smiling at you to show I wasn't arguing in an aggressive manner. I know there is more than one reason why rapes are committed, as I said, you run a small risk every time you enter into an encounter, and also every time you walk home alone etc. There's no reason to assume that there's more of a risk of being raped than usual in meeting with an escort.

[Thingiebob]

Agree with James and the Giant Banana.

[Cardinal]

Tbh, I'd just try online dating. Date and shag. Pretty simple stuff, and no need to waste stupid money.

[ALittleFaith]

Zombie thread this has been bumped by a male escort. Post reported.

[WendyTorrance]

Ugh. 'The Love Doctor'
I've reported too.

[GinSoakedBitchyPony]

Also reported. He's posting the same thing all over the Pregnancy board of all places!

[WendyTorrance]

He must be one shite escort then if he's looking for business on the other side of the world and targeting pregnant women.

[ScrambledEggAndToast]

OP, have you been reading the article that was in the DM?? Technically I wouldn't be against it (although with OD it's so easy to get free sex, I have no idea why you'd pay for it). However, I think I would die of embarrassment at the part where you hand over the cash and watching him count it and also if he started asking me exactly what I wanted

[Lavenderice]

I wouldn't have a problem with this. I also don't have an issue with prostitutes who aren't exploited and believe me there are some, both male and female, who do enjoy their work.

I would do a lot of research about the agency and the guy and if you're happy go for it.

[EvilTendency1]

Zombie Thread

[VernonGodLittle]

This bloke seems hopefully deluded nice.

[VernonGodLittle]

How about this deluded hopeful fellow OP?

[maggiethemagpie]

I went on a couple of meetup sites when I was single, did the drinks then shag thing, it was ok - would probably work for what the OP wants. It's like on line dating without the possibility of a relationship, you can meet up fo a drink first to see if you like them. Cheaper than hiring an escort, but if the OP has lots of ££££ maybe that's not so much of an issue.