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Sad or bad...

6 replies

Lifegoeson · 08/12/2009 23:10

That my solicitor told me in all his years, my story was the saddest he'd ever heard...

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jasper · 08/12/2009 23:13

one of my friends married her divorce solicitor ...

It's very sad.
Are you ok?

mrsboogiefairylights · 08/12/2009 23:15

you can't just leave it there.. you have to tell us..

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Lifegoeson · 09/12/2009 00:15

Not really, was in court today, went better than expected, but I'm still reeling...

You wouldn't believe me if I told you... I can't believe this is my life...

But would it make you feel better? Knowing that someone who's heard a lot of stories, solicitor in question in his 40's, though yours was the saddest EVER, should I feel glad I'm still (barely) functioning or am I am just a sad sack.

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AliBellandthe40jingles · 09/12/2009 00:19

Firstly - you do have to tell us now, mean to leave it hanging!

Secondly - you should feel proud of yourself for getting through what has clearly been an awful time.

jasper · 09/12/2009 00:31

I think in a bizarre way it would make me feel better. Without knowing the details of your divorce, that your solicitor thought it was the saddest ever...and you are still standing.

Monty100 · 09/12/2009 00:43

Do share.

A lot of us have been hurt.

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