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Ahem. Discrete request. Can anyone suggest some female friendly porn..?

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IBlameThePMT · 25/11/2009 21:06

Its just that DH and I really need a bit of a kick start at the mo, but normal porn can feel a bit sleazy when you are as off the boil as we are. I am after something a bit gentler, but still properly saucy. Pictorial would be good, its more for DH's benefit than mine. I prefer a good story line myself! Any thoughts..?

Probably should have name changed but hey ho!

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howdidthishappenthen · 25/11/2009 21:11

Magazines or DVDs?

RealityMNTVStar · 25/11/2009 21:15

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IBlameThePMT · 25/11/2009 21:18

Please punctuate properly Reality. I prefer ' to ; in can't.

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Rhubarb · 25/11/2009 21:18

Doctor Who?

IBlameThePMT · 25/11/2009 21:20

Thread has all gone a bit surreal now, thanks Rhubarb

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skymoo · 25/11/2009 21:25

try Anna Span. I quite like the market dvd

Rhubarb · 25/11/2009 21:27

Strictly come dancing even has the word 'come' in the title. Isn't that soft porn?

I'm a celebrity showering myself in the jungle?

babbi · 25/11/2009 21:28

I am told (!) Anna Span DVD's are very good. Female director therefore targeted to interest woman , not the typical old porn for men- I am informed !

RealityMNTVStar · 25/11/2009 21:31

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Missus84 · 25/11/2009 21:31

How about Anna Span? Think you can buy her movies in some Ann Summers shops.

Missus84 · 25/11/2009 21:32

I see I am late with that suggestion!

IBlameThePMT · 25/11/2009 21:34

Anna getting good reports here! Will investigate...

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skymoo · 25/11/2009 21:38

'Pound a Punnet' is the name of the one i have seen!

IBlameThePMT · 25/11/2009 21:40

Sounds very sophisticated skymoo!

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skymoo · 25/11/2009 21:43

haha, very nice though!

Malificence · 25/11/2009 22:23

Petra Joy's stuff is marketed as ethical porn. You can see the trailers on her website.

The lovers guide dvd set is educational, but still very explicit and has some good ideas, positions, mens POV, womens POV, kinky stuff.
I think that trying some of the ideas on there would be more helpful than just porn.

A game like monogamy is great for spicing things up too.

Fizzylemonade · 25/11/2009 22:53

Viv Thomas but you have to pay for the movies, I honestly haven't seen any of it but my lovely friend subscribes to it.

She describes it as no zitty buttocks or women who look like they are drugged up (don't know what she used to watch )

Have just googled that to see if it was the right name and now thinking my God what will my DH think I am looking at

Me "yeah, just on MN" him "oh really"

pellmell · 25/11/2009 23:48

The viv thomas site is really nice.....just had a sneaky peek .

thesunshinesbrightly · 26/11/2009 00:09

I love the proper stuff me slef

spicemonster · 26/11/2009 00:11

you can watch a fair bit of viv thomas stuff for free at youporn

Tortington · 26/11/2009 00:12

cliterati does stories.

not been on that site for a while though so it may have changed

SolidGoldBangers · 26/11/2009 00:14

Petra Joy, definitely. If you find her stuff a little bit too lovey-dovey, then there is a brand called FilmErotica which is quite fun: explicit but the participants generally seem to be enjoying themselves.
Also, how about some erotic fiction? Xcite Books do collections of short stories with a strong female-friendly ethos, and reading stories to each other is often a big turn on; reading stories by yourself and then saying to your partner that you read this thing and would like to try it out is also a good one.
(Or you could buy my book).

TLESinChristmasStockings · 26/11/2009 01:10

I hear
has some good story lines
and you can have a free membership.

you can also write your own and submit them search for exactly what you want to read.

Devendra · 26/11/2009 06:31

Try googling Melanies.. She is a british porn film maker and films real swingers/parties/people who are loving it!!! x

notamumyetbutoneday · 26/11/2009 09:59

Ann Summers do DVDs - i can recommend 'Testing the Limits' as an introduction to porn- fairly soft focus, boobs and bums and doing it but no close up and 'in your face [ahem] action.

If you subscribe to Lovefilm they have an adult section, we find this is a good way to try out different ones without spending loads/having some massive porn collection at home.

Have you heard of/read Scarlet magazine? They have recommendations for porn DVDs and websites as well as erotic short stories. [subscriber]