Just an update - I can't seem to access my old thread (search is acting up) - for those who wanted an update anyway, I have found a house to move to, the landlord is happy to accept HB, it's on a nice quiet road near a park, 2 nurseries (either of which would be good) and a primary school. I should be moving on 2 Dec. I am excited but so nervous about it - finding it hard to eat and feeling jittery all the time especially when I think about it.