So totally devastated- please help me

[UtterlyBereft]

I have found this site after being so impressed by accounts of it in the press, and after looking around and seeing how supportive you all seem to be I am reaching out for a way through this pain.

I have never known hurt like this before- I was one of those people who thought love would last forever. I was wrong. Richard has left me, and I'm pretty sure he has moved in with the woman door. I don't know what I'm going to do...

Should I take his belongings round and leave them on the doorstep? I shouldn't have let him out of my sight- it's all my fault

Hi Utterly, am really sorry to hear this. Have you posted on here before? I don't have many wise words to offer on this but MN is the best site in the world for needing help and support.

So you think R has left you to live with your neighbour, have I got that right? I personally wouldn't have over his stuff, if he wants he, he collects it, but thats what I would do.

Am sending you big ((((((((hugs))))))))) and a virtual glas of wine, big box of tissues - am here if you want to share/scream/cry/make voodoo doll

OTM x

I don't know what to say

but I had to extend the hand of sympathy to you

welcome to Mumsnet

I hope you get the attention you need

and that you get help

Sorry, "hand" over his stuff....... its been a long day and am still at work - apologies!

I'm slightly concerned that he's moved in with a female door? Surely that can't be right?

That's what I was thinking hully

He wouldn't be strong enough to carry it all, I'm afraid. Perhaps if I do this for him, he will see how much I love him and that he was a fool to leave me? That is what I am hoping. I think he dragged a few bits and pieces round, what little he could manage, but I have done so much for him that I think he'll expect me to do it, to be honest.

You are so kind. I'm just so confused.

I can't really get a handle on this at all.

I suppose he just saw a welcoming bosom, Reality...mine just can't compare, it would seem...

Hully

Who and what is Richard?

Do you really want someone who is THAT shallow? You deserve better than that.

Ah. Is Richard a cat?

He does have a collection of toys that he will be missing. But I can't bear the thought of him sharing his pleasure with her

Try not to get in a flap about it.

Oo-er