This happened again last night..husband comes to bed, we have a cuddle he is showing signs he wants some loving, so I respond and as quick as he was all ready for it, it disapears!! He says he's got a lot on his mind. I feel ashamed that I don't do it for my husband anymore( if you know what I mean).has anyone else been through this? Don't know how to sort it out. Any advice suggestions please, would be truly grateful.