Hello, not really posted much before but im strugglin at the mo and was hoping someone can help me with this situation.
Dh and i decided on a break xmas time we had 6 - 7 months on a break although not technically on a break as there was some too-ing and froing in between and we agreed we would stay faithful until we completly decided it was over
Got back together in June/July and things were really good better than ever. All came crashing down recently as i discovered that in spite of the tooing and froing- he had been seeing someone else in this break, and he had ended things to come back to me.
what makes this worse is when he came back they kept in contact as friends by text, as he felt she needed him and that they were able to talk about alot of similar problems they had had at that time. She was an acquance of ours and due to where we live work etc i have to see her everyday .
After the fuming i have thought things through and i do love DH, however i am struggling to see how this could ever work now due to the lack of consideration when considering the partner. This person was known to me and at the time they had "this thing she came to my house and everything" like everything was normal im so angry with them both and dont know which way to move on?
She has made comments about waiting for him, and that she loves him whilst he is insisting its me he wants. I have never felt like punching anyone so much in my life arrrgh! and i just dont know what to do